Thursday, April 30, 2015

BALTIMORE RIOTS MOM OPRAH GAVE ME THUMBS UP For Smackdown On My Son

From TMZ:


It's one thing for the media to call you mother of the year -- but the so-called "Baltimore Riots mom" got an even better stamp of approval ... from Oprah Winfrey. 

We just talked to Toya Graham and her son, Michael Singleton, in NYC ... where she's become a media darling for her now famous public shaming -- and butt-whupping -- of her son when he attempted to join rioters in Baltimore this week.

Toya told us about all the cool people she's met in person since the run-in -- but explained why the phone call from Oprah topped them all. She also revealed what big O had to say about her parenting skills.

Best of all ... Toya tells us exactly what kind of punishment Michael's getting at home.

Lesson learned ... we guarantee.



Monday, April 20, 2015

Todd Family Laid to Rest




This extremely emotional picture of eight coffins lined for the funeral services of The Todd family has been circulating on the Internet and it left me very heavy hearted.

Rodney Todd, a 36-year old father and his seven children, Cameron,13; Zycheim, 7; Tynijuiza, 15; Tykira, 12; Tybree, 10; Tyania, 9; and Tybria 6; silently passed away after being poisoned with carbon monoxide as they slept through the night. Rodney Todd divorced from his ex-wife in November and had been raising his children.

The family's power was cut on March 25 due to safety issues when the Delmarva Power Company located a stolen meter, contrary to the beliefs of the family thinking the power was cut due to a delinquent bill. In order to preserve heat and light, Rodney went and bought a generator and it was reported the family passed away from carbon monoxide inhalation on March 28, three days after their power was cut.

Unfortunately, their bodies were not found until April 6 when family and friends grew worried about their whereabouts.

Services were held on Saturday at the Ella Fitzgerald Percorming Arts Center which is on the campus of University of Maryland Eastern Shore, where Rodney Todd worked in the dining services department.

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Stephanee Pinkney


HeadshotI had the pleasure of interviewing the beautiful Mrs. Stephanee Pinkney of 2 Half 2 Whole Magazine. This magazine was founded in 2014 and was motivated to be written by the increasing rate of divorces. The mission of the magazine is to provide couples with practical tools and resources to build a healthy marriage. "Through personal testimonials, licensed therapist, and Christian values, 2H2W will provoke couples to forgive more, love harder, and laugh often."





HERE'S OUR INTERVIEW:


There are thousands of magazines out there so you are in a very competitive market, but I noticed most magazines are targeted for teens, senior citizens, gardeners, African Americans (JET/Ebony), hair enthusiast, etc. What made you decide to want to design a magazine structured for and about married couples?

Well Ive been married for almost 7 years and I noticed there wasn’t really anything out there that gave realistic and honest perceptions of what marriage is and how to navigate through it successfully.  Most magazines give relationship advice but none really give real life accounts of marriage, the ups and downs and how to be a better person and a better husband/wife.


What advice would you give to anyone wanting to start a magazine or get into entrepreneurship period?

My advice is to do internships with people that are in the industry you are seeking to be in.  Never be afraid to learn. Always be a student. We never have all the right answers so be willing to learn from others. Do your research! Research is important. Learn your market and the industry you are wanting to enter.  Study your competition and what will make you stand out from you competition.  Always way out the pros and cons. Be prepared to invest in your vision. If you aren’t willing to invest all you have in your vision you can’t expect someone else to do the same.  Be prepared to hear more no’s than yes. It’s a touch world out here and people don’t care about what you are trying to do. Have tough skin and know if this is something you really want to do, then don’t give up


You had a piece for the singles in your most recent publication, would you recommend that singles read your magazine to get tips for how to prepare for marriage?

Yes! That is the purpose of having a singles section in the magazine.  What better way to prepare someone for something they desire than to have people who are in it to explain the ups and downs.  It gives singles the upper hand that some of us married folks didn’t have coming into marriage. 


4) What is your definition of love?

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV)4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.This is true love.


5) Would you say you’re a Christian based magazine? If so, how do you make it appeal to those who aren’t Christians or who don’t believe what you believe religiously?

2Half2Whole Magazine is a Christian magazine because of our foundation is Christian beliefs as it pertains to marriage. But at the same time, anyone can pick up the magazine and receive relevant information pertaining to life; rather it be finances, finding your purpose, recipes and more. Our goal with the magazine is for people to see Christ in every message we give.  Being a Christian isn’t all about telling people you are a Christian. It’s about being that example and that light so people see Christ in you. That’s what 2Half2Whole is about.


**We gave the opportunities for 2 subscribers to ask Mrs. Pinkney a question as well**


“What would your advice be for a single man like me?  I got married when he was 17 and was married for 41 years before my wife died.  Now I’m a good looking man and I just started to date again but I’ve never gotten a second date from any of the women I’ve taken out. They all say I’m not over my wife. Am I doing something wrong? Doesn’t me dating show that I’m trying to move on? 

If you are receiving the message from everyone that you are not over your wife then you probably aren’t.  Just because you are dating doesn’t mean that you are over her.  It’s like someone who is insecure.  They can seem self-centered and vein about their looks but other characteristics they portray, such as how they treat themselves and how they allow others to treat them, will show that they are insecure and it will turn people off. My suggestion is that you do a self-evaluation. Evaluate the statements of the women you have dated and really ask yourself if you are really ready to date. 


How did you meet your husband and how long have you been married? 

I met my husband in high school and we have been married for 7 years in November.


"Stephanee’s vision for 2Half2Whole is to counter the negative representation that the media portrays of marriage both in society and in Christianity. Stephanee believes that the restoration of marriage is deeply rooted in the covenant that one has with God first and then family. She is on a personal mission to take marriages back by creating a movement—from half to whole."


*Can people still subscribe? If so, where at?

Yes! They can go to www.2half2wholemag.com and subscribe at any time!

Thursday, April 2, 2015

The Pros & Cons of Social Media

Over the past few years, the use of social media has become an ongoing and controversial topic. Some parents only see social media as a bad thing and try to keep children away from them because of the excessive “cyber bullying” and predators. People also see things like ‘Craigslist’ and get anxious because of all the bad things that they hear on the news. Other people use Craigslist to find things like cars, apartments and houses and never had any problems.

Cons:
As previously stated, parents are very skeptical of their younger children having access to the Internet period. According to the Journal of Adolescent Health, only 18% of youth use chat rooms, however, the majority of Internet-initiated sex crimes against children are initiated in chat rooms. Also that 82% of online sex crimes against minors, the offender used the victim’s social networking site to gain information about the victim’s likes and dislikes. Parent’s Television Council says one in seven kids received a sexual solicitation online.

A lot of adults are not aware of the term “cyber bulling” but it refers to Internet bullying and is a form of teen violence that can do long-term harm to young people and affects them on a daily basis. Cyber bullying consists of:

  • Sending mean messages or threats to a person's email account or cell phone
  • Spreading rumors online or through text
  • Posting hurtful or threatening messages on social networking sites or web pages
  • Stealing a person's account information to break into their account and send damaging messages
  • Pretending to me someone else online to hurt another person
  • Taking unflatering pictures of a person and spreading them through cell phones or the Internet
  • Sexting, or circulating sexually suggestice pictures or messages about a person
 
According to bullying statistics, cyber bullies do not realize the consequences for themselves of cyber bullying and that their actions have lead their victims  to anxiety, depression and even suicide.

The things teens post online now may reflect badly on them later when they apply for college or a job. If you are looking for a job, you need to be aware of your digital footprint – the information connected with your name online. Companies and recruiters routinely check search engine results to learn more about potential employees. According to Forbes, up to 70% of employers who have used LinkedIn say they’ve chosen not to hire a person based on what they’ve found out about them online. However, only 27% of employers give job seekers the opportunity to discuss the online content that is associated with their name, such as social media profiles, blog posts and photos.

A professional con of social networking sites is that people depend on it so much for communication, that they lack the skills of holding a conversation face to face. According to a study, 10% of people younger than 25 years old respond to social media and text messages during sex.

Pros:
As a public relations major, I am taught the benefits of having social media. From promoting businesses to keeping up with family members to following a campaign trail, social media can also be used for a lot of good things. Social networking sites are a top news source for 27.8% of Americans, ranking below newspapers (28.8%) and above radio (18.8%) and print publications (6%) and also spreads information faster than any other media.

Just like social media can hurt your career or college opportunities, it could also help. 96.6% of four-year institutions use Facebook to recruit students, 83.4% use Twitter, and 79.3% use YouTube. Also, there are different sites, such as Blackboard, offers teachers a platform for collaboration with other teachers and communication with students outside the classroom.

With politics, social networking increases voter participation. Facebook users reported they are more likely to vote if they see on social networking sites that their friends did. During the Nov. 2010 elections, Facebook users who visit the site more than once a day were 2.5 times more likely to attend a political rally or meeting, 57% more likely to persuade someone about a vote, and 43% more likely to say they will vote. During the 2012 presidential election, 22% of registered voters posted about how they voted on Facebook or Twitter, 30% were encouraged to vote by posts on social media, and 20% encouraged others to vote via social networking sites. It can also lead to facilitating political change.

Even up and coming musicians use social media to build up their audience even if they don’t have a record deal. The best example I can think of is Justin Beiber. He was discovered on YouTube when he was 12 years old and in 2012, when he was 18, his net worth was estimated at $80 million.




If you don’t know how to use social media, it can be a bad thing. Social media offers a lot of privacy selections along with the option to block people you want to keep away. Having Internet Etiquette is not popular but very necessary to have.


Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Verdict reached in Atlanta Public Schools' Cheating Trial

According to WSB-TV Atlanta, a jury, after deliberating for nearly eight days, has reached guilty verdicts in 11 of 12 defendants  in the Atlanta Public Schools cheating trial.


Deputies take an educator into custody after a jury issued guilty verdicts
Deputies take Michael Pitts into custody after a jury issued guilty verdicts.


Originally 35 were indicted but more than half took plea deals while 12 decided to take their case to trial. After almost two years, Atlanta prosecutors were able to gather enough evidence to go after the 12 educators accused of manipulating and changing student test scores.

On September 29, 2014, National Public Radio (NPR) reported Nathan Governor Deal saying, "We found cheating in 44 of the 56 schools we examined. There were 38 principals of those 56 schools found to be responsible for or directly involved in the cheating."

Dessa Curb, a teacher at Dobbs Elementary, was found
Dessa Curb was the only educator acquitted of all charges against her
Fulton County prosecutor Fani Willis told jurors that the chances of the number of wrong to right erasures on the 2009 CRCT in Atlanta Public Schools was one in a quadrillion and called it a vast conspiracy.


Here is the video of Judge Jerry Baxter making is ruling after hearing the jury's verdict.




Click here to see the names, schools, and charges that each educator got.